
The theme for July in the Create More Community was “sunshine & happiness”.
Nadia led an inspiring chat and tutorial for us. Listening to everyone’s reflections on finding small joys even during tough times—and the beautiful art tutorial—were truly uplifting.
I chose to paint the phrase “Be your own sunshine”.
To me, it is all about creating your own happiness instead of waiting on other people or outside things to make you feel good.
One of the biggest things that keeps us from connecting with our creative joyful spirit is the way we think. And I think the second biggest thing might be the expectations we hold for the way things “should be”.
Have you heard the phrase – stop shoulding all over yourself?
It refers to the habit of telling yourself you should be doing something:
“I should work out more.”
“I should be further along in my career.”
“I should be happier.”
This can extend to your environment and others too.
“They should have called me.”
“That last piece of cake should have been mine.”
“This evening should have been more fun.”
This kind of talk creates guilt, pressure, judgment and it’s often based on unrealistic expectations, scarcity mindset, or comparison.
When you start to feel the word “should” creep up, take a pause and ask yourself what’s really important to me right now?
I suggest in addition you pick up a paintbrush or a pen or pull an oracle card or turn on some music and dance around your living room – or under the full moon and through the sprinklers as I did this month, hehe.
Allow yourself to redirect and put the power back in your hands. Make your creative soul VERY happy by being your own sunshine.

I enjoyed the process so much I ended up doing a second page in my sketchbook that says “hello sunshine”.
In addition to a monthly tutorial we create together, Nadia, Angela or I share a second video recorded that we call Creative Quickies. For July, I shared how to make a radiant sun with collage papers, shown on the right.
If you’re looking for empowering art making ideas and a supportive space to grow, I invite you to join our community. Together, we’ll explore ways to nurture your joy, creativity, and confidence—on your own terms.
Ready to shine brighter? Join us here!
Hurry, we are closing the doors on July 31st.